Pacific Yearly Meeting
of the
Religious Society of Friends

 

"Integrity and the Life of a Faith Community"

63rd Annual Gathering
July 27 - August 1, 2009
Walker Creek Ranch, Petaluma, CA


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 Call to the Annual Gathering of Pacific Yearly Meeting 2009

Pacific Yearly Meeting of the Religious Society of Friends will gather for its 63rd Annual Gathering July 27th to August 1st at Walker Creek Ranch, Petaluma, California. As we gather together we will be dealing with the weighty issue of whether or not to hire a Youth Coordinator. At our annual sessions last year we “approved in principle” the hiring, but Friends felt there were too many details to work out and the proposal was sent to Representative Committee, where it was seasoned by representatives sent by many Meetings in PYM. Many folks have taken part in this process and as a result the proposal has been changed and is one of the most detailed and thoughtful proposals to have been placed before us. The ad hoc Youth Coordinator Committee has done a wonderful job of writing, changing, and coordinating the discussion of the proposal and at our sessions this year we will have an opportunity to come to unity on the proposal.

I’d like to take this opportunity to remind Friends that we gather in faith and hope that the Spirit will guide us to make Spirit-led decisions. The process is as it has always been. Friends should read and study the proposals coming to us. The Youth Proposal has been especially season by Meetings and by Representative Committee. If you have any questions, please do your homework and contact a member of the ad hoc committee bringing the proposal to us.

Remember that in our Plenaries we come together to Worship on the Occasion of Business. In worship, we assume that it is not the Friend who speaks, but the Spirit who speaks through that Friend. We are not a debating society, nor does the most eloquent and well-phrased speech carry the day. We are to listen “behind the words” to the Spirit under them. Please be respectful of each other. Speak once if called on by the clerk. If someone has already voiced your concerns, there is no need to speak. When speaking, speak only to the clerk. Be respectful of other Friends and assume everyone’s goodwill. Be mindful that every one of our committees has tried their best to season the work it puts before you. As you worship, lay your thoughts and ideas about “what should happen” aside so that Spirit might have room to enter our discussions.

One of the difficulties of being your clerk for the last three years has been sensing an attitude of distrust that makes it very difficult for us to do our business together. Often times it’s been difficult to clerk a process where goodwill seems to have been left at home. Partly this is due, I think, to how difficult it is to communicate across so many Meetings and so many committees. I sometimes despair that we’ve gone from being a community of seekers to being a community of committees. I’ve sensed a deep unwillingness to let a process move forward unless everyone has had their say and some feel called to speak to everything! This makes the process cumbersome and difficult to open to the Spirit.

We also need to remember that “twinkling” (raised hands to indicate support for what was said) is also not good Quaker process. I’m not sure where it came into our Meetings, but it has bothered me for a long time. We need to see it as a form of “voting” with our hands and so is counterproductive of our process of trying to gather under the Spirit. Please allow me to try and discern the sense of the Meeting by centering myself deeply in prayer as I listen carefully to sense where the Spirit wishes us to move.

One of the exciting things to happen this year is the work of the ad hoc Futures Committee. I know you’ll find some of their recommendations, coming out of our Discernment Process, thought-provoking and exciting. Perhaps there might be time this year to talk about how to implement some of their recommended changes. I’d also like to lift up the work of the Ministry and Leadings subcommittee. They have worked diligently on the question of how Meetings and PYM can support those of us with leadings. We’ll also hear from Unity with Nature and Rolene Walker will talk about her walk!

I look forward to seeing you all this summer… In friendship, Joe
 


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